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Suicide—warning signs and support options

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In Australia, suicide is the leading cause of death for males and females aged between 15 and 44. In a typical year, about 2,500 people in Australia die by suicide. This is nearly seven people every day. For every suicide, there are tragic ripple effects for friends, families, colleagues and the broader community.

This article, which shares information courtesy of beyondblue, highlights the warning signs of suicide, how to get help, and how to talk about suicide. This is the third in a series of articles which also shares information on anxiety and depression, with the aim of improving awareness of mental health.

Read the anxiety article here.

Read the depression article here.

Did you know?

  • Suicide kills close to twice as many people in Australia as the road toll each year.
  • Men are at least three times more likely to die by suicide than women.
  • Women are more likely to think about, plan and attempt suicide compared to men. 
  • Indigenous Australians are twice as likely to die by suicide than non-Indigenous Australians.
  • Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, intersex people are at increased risk of suicidal behaviours.

If a person you know seems to be struggling, reach out and connect with them. Showing that you care, could make a huge difference in their life. If you are struggling yourself, you might feel better if you reach out for support, get treatment and start taking steps towards recovery.

Get support now

If the situation is urgent and you’re concerned you, or someone else, is in immediate danger, do not leave the person alone, unless you are concerned for your own safety.  

Call the person’s doctor, a mental health crisis service or dial 000 and say that the person’s life is at risk.  

If the person agrees, you could go together to the local hospital emergency department for assessment.

Other services include:

Lifeline13 11 14

Suicide call back service1300 659 467

beyondblue Support Service1300 22 4636

Kids Helpline1800 551 800

Worried about suicide

Sometimes, life can present overwhelming situations that can be difficult to deal with and people might consider suicide as a possible solution to end the pain. People with depression or anxiety are also more likely to attempt suicide than other people.

We can all play a role in preventing suicide by looking out for possible warning signs, reaching out and talking about it.

If you are in an emergency, or an immediate risk of harm to yourself or others, please contact emergency services on 000. For other support services go to Get support now.

What are the warning signs?

Sometimes, when a person has a deteriorating mental health condition or a person faces a serious, negative life situation, he or she may consider suicide or harming him or herself.

This is not the case for everyone with depression or anxiety, but it’s important to be aware that for some people their condition may become so severe that they may believe these actions are their only option to relieve unbearable pain.

Common warning signs

Someone who is thinking about suicide will usually give some clues or signs to people around them, though these may be subtle. Suicide prevention starts with recognising the warning signs and taking them seriously.

Suicide warning signs

  • A sense of hopelessness or no hope for the future
  • Isolation or feeling alone“No one understands me”
  • Aggressiveness and irritability“Leave me alone”
  • Possessing lethal meansmedication, weapons
  • Negative view of self“I am worthless”
  • Drastic changes in mood and behaviour
  • Frequently talking about death“If I died would you miss me?”
  • Self-harming behaviours like cutting
  • Engaging in 'risky' behaviours“I’ll try anything, I’m not afraid to die"
  • Making funeral arrangements
  • Giving things away (clothes, expensive gifts)“When I am gone, I want you to have this”
  • Substance abuse
  • Feeling like a burden to others“You would be better off without me”
  • Making suicide threats“Sometimes I feel like I just want to die”

Responding to warning signs

Talking to someone about suicidal thoughts can be challenging but if you are unsure whether someone is suicidal, the best way to find out is to ask.

Talking to someone about your suicidal feelings

Having suicidal thoughts can be scary. You may have never had them before, or perhaps the thoughts have been there for a while and you are not sure what to do.

You may be ashamed to talk about it or worry that people will judge you or not take you seriously and just tell you to “Get over it”. But talking to someone you trust and feel comfortable with, about how you are feeling can help. 

The Have the conversation pages on the beyondblue website provides helpful tips on how you can find the words to say how you feel.

Let someone know

  • Share how you feel with someone you trust and feel comfortable with, a family member, teacher, doctor or other health professional.
  • Try and think about it as any other conversation. You can describe what has happened, how you feel and what help you need. It’s best to be direct so that they understand how you feel.
  • Be prepared for their reaction. Often people who learn that someone is suicidal can be quite confused and emotional at first. Just keep talking and together you can find a way through it.
  • Ask your friends/family member to help you find support; in person, online, over the phone.
  • Understand that others do care. It is important to have support from your friends but if you tell them about your suicidal thoughts you cannot expect them to keep it a secret. They want to be able to help you stay safe and that usually means calling in extra help.

Keep safe

In the first instance you need to focus on finding ways to stay safe. Once you are safe you can work out how you are going to get the help you need. Find out more about making a safety plan.

  • Remember that thoughts of suicide are just thoughts; you do not have to act on them. These thoughts might only last a few minutes; you might feel differently in a few hours.
  • Postpone any decisions to end your life. Give yourself time to get the support you need.
  • Remove anything in the house that you might use to impulsively harm yourself – maybe give it to a friend.
  • Keep crisis line phone numbers or web links in your mobile phone for easy use.
  • Avoid being alone. Have someone near you until your thoughts of suicide decrease.
  • Avoid drugs and alcohol. They can intensify how you feel and make decision making more impulsive.

Having a conversation with someone you're worried about

Talking openly about suicide or self-harm can be confronting and may create feelings of discomfort, apprehension and confusion.

It can be frightening and distressing when someone you care about wants to harm him or herself. It’s important to remember that for many people this is part of their mental health condition. However, learning about suicide and self-harm may help you to recognise when a person is at risk and you’ll be better prepared should a crisis occur.

If a person you know seems to be struggling, reach out and connect with them. Showing that you care, could make a huge difference in their life. 

The Conversations Matter website and Language when talking about suicide page on this website provides helpful tips on how to talk about suicide. A good place to start thinking about what to say to someone you're worried about is the Have the conversation page.

Be prepared 

It’s always better to be prepared. Talk to the person about the issue of suicide when he or she isn’t highly distressed and encourage them to develop a safety plan that can be used to cope should they be triggered and start heading into a suicidal crisis.

These resources can help with safety planning:

Recovery and support strategies

Many people experience suicidal thoughts and feelings, but with support, they are able to work through them and stay safe. People with depression, anxiety or other mental conditions often make full recoveries and go on to lead full, productive and happy lives.

It is important to remember that there is hope for change but that change often happens slowly. Taking steps to getting the support you need can lead to recovery.

Safety planning

A safety plan is the best way to provide structure to what can seem like an uncontrollable and frightening situation. A safety plan is a series of steps you develop and follow if you start to feel suicidal or have thoughts of harming yourself.

Make a safety plan

Staying well 

Having connections to other people and things you find important can protect you against suicidal thoughts or make it easier to manage if such thoughts return.

Strategies to look after yourself

Strategies for the supporter

Supporting a person who is suicidal or has attempted suicide can be stressful and at times overwhelming. As with any other time of stress it is essential that you look after yourself emotionally and physically.

Ways to cope with supporting someone

Support after a suicide attempt

beyondblue have created resources for people after they have attempted suicide which feature real-life experiences from people who have been through the experience before or supported loved ones in their recovery.

Explore the Way Back resources

This information is courtesy of beyondblue, and more comprehensive information on suicide and treatment is available on the beyondblue website.

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If you or someone you know needs help, contact:

beyondblue: 1300 22 4636  

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Last updated
29 May 2017

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Published: 23 Oct 2015
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